Thanks for mention (I think), but my post was about the
appearance of things more than reality. You guys push boundaries and limits with visual innuendo and inference. I know you gotta know you do it – everyone talks about how you do it. I just put what everyone was saying into a blog post with words.
As far as my conjecturing about HIV status. I sorta just stated the obvious. Some of the tops in that video have what some call “the poz look”. I also know you guys are pretty clear about not having neg bottoms get fucked by poz tops and that the vast majority of your models are poz. It’s not a huge leap to say everyone in the scene was poz (though having been a neg top in one of your videos I suppose one of the tops could be neg). And then it was just a matter of pointing out that the bottom looked the least poz and the most “healthy” and how that visually implies certain things.
To be clear – my use of the term “healthy” is more in the vernacular and has nothing to do with medical health. One person can look like shit and be healthy as a horse. Another can look great and die the next day – which is why I put “healthy” in quotes – it’s not about real health. Still, our community talks about guys who look “healthy” and guys who don’t, which is inline with my usage of the term.
It does seem odd to me that you’d deny the models are poz, or not want to discuss the obvious. I’m guessing there are legal/privacy issues on your end. Ultimately I would say we’re probably on the same page. You’re starting a whole series of videos with openly poz guys because you know our poz customers need to see that their status isn’t something that they should be ashamed of – that being poz doesn’t mean they stop being desirable sexually. That’s the same motivation behind my pointing out obviously poz models. It’s really about poz guys not feeling shame. It’s about sexy poz role models.
And I wouldn’t say bug chasing / gift giving is any more my passion than it is yours.

I just discuss it more openly and frankly than you guys do. I don’t see either as necessarily pathological. We’re the dominant species on our planet. We got to that point by a genetic predisposition to reproduce. The fact that the impulse to reproduce is manifested in gay men (futilely) isn’t surprising, and it’s not surprising that some gay men have romanticized the act of exchanging semen even when we logically know it can harm us. There are very primal forces at play that come from deep in our genetic make up. You put all of that into visual metaphors, I put it into words.
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