I usually ask if it's a stranger - if he says he's neg then I trust him and let him cum in me. For tops who've fucked me in the past I don't ask them - I'm probably asking for it really.
Always
Usually, but not for anonymous sex
Only if I think he might be a different status than me
Almost never - only if asked
Never - avoid the question if asked
Just wondering how many guys discuss HIV status before a bareback fuck? Are there times when you do and others when you don't?
I know for me I never bring it up. I used to, but it's just not an issue anymore. I do have some bottoms ask - usually "neg" guys who want to know if I'm neg, but generally guys don't seem to discuss it. In fact I'd say less than 1/2 of the guys who list their status as neg in their profiles ask me if I'm really neg...
I usually ask if it's a stranger - if he says he's neg then I trust him and let him cum in me. For tops who've fucked me in the past I don't ask them - I'm probably asking for it really.
I am neg and most guys don't ask, even after I ask them, which I always do. I don't discuss what they say as I am gonna fuck them anyway, but I do think most of them are truthful.
I'm a neg bottom. I've always felt that it is rude to ask someone their status. I asked the status of the first Top who fucked me bareback, but I haven't asked the status of any others since. If a Top asks me my status, I tell him truthfully that I've always tested neg. I'm addicted to bareback and my sub nature drives me to give my holes to pretty much any Top who asks. From my perspective, a Top's status is HIS business. I never ask.
I think that most people are probably gonna say the "best" thing in the heat of the moment.
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