Here's my attitude on the question of medical treatment:
You absolutely have to educate yourself as well as you possibly can before making any decisions. Do not rely on what the doctor is telling you. Sometimes they're wrong. Sometimes they're incompetent. Sometimes they don't have the best, most up-to-date information. In most cases, you have ample opportunity to take the time and make a good decision. But it's your responsibility to take advantage of it.
It's also your responsibility to keep the lines of communication open with your doctor. Tell them exactly what's going on, what you feel, how you're doing. Ask questions. Ask what the alternatives are. You have to be proactive. Don't just blindly do what you're told but be an active participant in your own treatment.
Note: that also includes being VERY proactive about STD testing and treatment, especially if you're barebacking. Head in the sand does not work. You need to tell your doctor that you're in a high risk category and that you need routine testing for things like syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, etc.
Pulling the trigger on when to start treating should be something you yourself consider very carefully. Learn how to read the medical journals and understand what they're saying. Or at least go to the sites that will translate them into layman's terms for you. Do your research and then consult with your doctor and figure out what your treatment plan will be. Note: this is very much similar to the advice I give to people about having sex: learn the relative risk factors, figure out what level of risk you're comfortable with and have sex accordingly. The one thing I can't stand is people who allow themselves to remain ignorant and then complain with perfect 20/20 hindsight.
Obviously different people will come up with different treatment plans. Some will be more aggressive with meds than others. Hell, some will decide that garlic is the miracle cure. There's precious little we can do to change that. And probably not much that we should do. What we can do is take responsibility for ourselves.



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